Ernest Rutherford Groves, NCFR's 3rd President

Ernest R. Groves

Ernest Rutherford Groves was born May 6, 1877 in Framingham, Massachusetts to Henry Hunt and Hannah Sweard Groves. He received his B.D. from Yale Divinity School in 1901 and his A.B. from Dartmouth College in 1903. Professor Groves later received honorary doctorate degrees from Florida Southern College in 1942 and from Boston University in 1946. Although Professor Groves served for a short time as a pastor in Maine, he soon began the teaching and research, which would be his life's work. Among the schools where he served as a faculty member were New Hampshire University, Dartmouth College, Boston University, Duke University and the University of North Carolina. He served as Dean of the Liberal Arts College at New Hampshire University from 1914 to 1920. Professor Groves taught at the University of North Carolina from 1927 until the time of his death. He was also often a visiting lecturer at various schools.

A sociologist

Groves developed the first college credit course in preparation for marriage (at Boston University in 1922, and at UNC in 1927). He wrote the first college text on the subject of marriage in 1933.

A prolific author

Groves wrote more than twenty books and nearly 200 articles and became one of the leading and most respected family life educators in this country. Professor Groves' work appeared in the popular journals of the day (Look, Good Housekeeping, Parents Magazine) as well as the academic journals (Social Forces, Journal of Educational Sociology). He served on the editorial boards of many of these publications.

A Leader

Groves was the first president of the North Carolina Mental Hygiene Society, serving from 1936 to 1938. He was president of the National Conference on Family Relations in 1941. From 1938 to 1940, Groves was chairman of the committee on the Family for the Federal Council of Churches of Christ in America. Throughout his career, Groves was an active member in numerous national and state organizations for marriage, family life, and mental hygiene.

Groves began the successful annual conferences on the Conservation of Marriage and the Family; at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Mrs. Groves had begun the conference at the North Carolina College for Negroes. They became affiliated in 1947. They eventually became known as the Groves Conference of Marriage and the Family, still in existence today.

It will be apparent, when reviewing the correspondence particularly, that Ernest Groves was well loved and most respected. He was a compassionate, thoughtful man who gave generously of his time and expertise. He devoted a great deal of his time to counseling patients in person and via the mail. His work was progressive for its time; his advice is most often still applicable today.

Personal Life

Ernest Groves married Dorothy Doe, daughter of New Hampshire Chief Justice Charles Doe, in 1906. They had two daughters, Catherine Groves Peele, and Ernestine Groves O'Kane. Catherine also became a well known educator and author, and occasionally collaborated with her father and stepmother. Dorothy Doe Groves died in 1916. On February 25, 1919, Ernest married Gladys Hoagland. They also had two daughters, Ruth Elva Petrillo Groves, and Lois Mary Groves McGill.

Gladys and Ernest Groves were a writing-teaching-counseling team and this is most apparent when reviewing this collection. Although there is no personal correspondence between the two, there are references to the solid, loving marriage the two of them shared. They were able to live as they taught others to live.

Ernest Groves died August 29, 1946 in Arlington, Massachusetts, where he was on vacation from teaching summer school at Boston University. When Ernest died in 1946, Gladys continued their work on her own, including the Annual Conferences of Marriage and the Family. She became 12th president of NCFR in 1955. Although the amount of correspondence diminishes after Ernest's death, that may be a sign that Gladys did not keep the same records that Ernest did, rather than that she necessarily slowed down in her work. There is little information past the 1940s but, what is here shows that Gladys remained active in professional organizations and in her teaching.

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